a while ago a friend commented on facebook..... and the comment went like this...
"You know you are at Club Shakes when even the girls are wearing Tapout shirts".
Naturally I just thought this particular gentleman had simply gone out on a quiet or cold night..... because The Shakes Girls are Hot! But it made me think.....
I am a single lady and I go to ladies night every Thursday, even if its just for an hour... And unlike most of the girls on a Thursday night, I prefer to go in jeans. I never used to.. I always wore a short, seductive little number and then danced awkwardly to maintain my modesty to attract some sort of muscle and Mohawk kind of man. But then it occurred to me....
The easiest way to draw attention to yourself is by looking different...Its the basic concept of creating yourself as "the other". This allowed me to dance freely and helped to avoid.... the very big, very drunk guy who throws his arm around your shoulder and says "hey baby.....I play E.P rugby".
And from this point on.......I abandoned the slutdress for ladies night.
My philosophy on this is simple.....
Why would you want a man that picks you out of a group of dresses instead of a man who finds you irresistible for no other reason than simply because you are YOU.
I think...... that a man that needs satin and ribbons to titillate his senses should simply TAPOUT... because he is in the wrong weight division.....
